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At the end of your relationship you find yourself left with one burning question: why won’t she come get her stuff? It’s been days, maybe even weeks since she called things off and now you’re left looking at a pile of painful reminders about happier times. It can be frustrating, infuriating, and at the same time can leave you plagued with questions about what this really means for your future.
Here are a few possible reasons to answer the question of “why won’t she come get her stuff?”
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She’s not really ready to say goodbye. She may have called things off but it could have been an act of desperation to get the changes she needed within the relationship. In this situation she might be waiting for you to make the move that would put things on the path to reconciliation. Tread carefully if you decide to make your move and remember that changes must be made if you hope to have a long and lasting future together. Of course this is the best case scenario. It’s not the only reason she hasn’t come to pick up her stuff. Some of these other situations are equally plausible.
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She fears a huge confrontation. How did things end between the two of you? Was it anything resembling the showdown at the O.K. Corral? It could be that she’s concerned about another confrontation and simply putting off picking up her stuff. If you’re interested in working things out between the two of you it might be wise to consider boxing her things up for her and sending a note offering to deliver them when it’s convenient for her. Be polite and be your charming best but most of all keep your voice and your heart rate under control. Don’t allow your emotions to get the best of you or you run the risk of doing more harm than good.
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Finally, the answer to “why won’t she come get her stuff” may very well be that she doesn’t know what to say. Breakups are awkward after the dust settles. She has loved you for so long and shared so much of her life with you. Now she doesn’t really know where to begin for something as simple as asking to come and pick up her belongings. She may need you to make the first move and call her up to see when she’ll be ready to come get her belongings or if she needs you to bring them to her. This small act of kindness may ease the tension and might even make you look like a kinder gentler person that she remembers.
The end of relationships are always difficult. Don’t dwell on thoughts of “why won’t she come get her stuff?” if possible. Instead focus on the future and the things you know you can change. Give her a little time, box up her belongings and hide them away if you must but don’t be in a rush to get rid of them altogether unless you are truly ready to close the book on that chapter in your life.
